For when you are tired of feeling broken, overwhelmed, and disconnected—and want to finally be healed, feel safe, and build the relationships you desire
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Achieve Lasting Inner Peace and Healthy Relationships with my Proven Step-by-Step Program
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The online program Healed & Happy
You don't want the Fearful Avoidant Attachment style to impact your life
I know how frustrating it is to feel stuck in the Fearful Avoidant cycle. You’ve tried many methods, but true healing feels out of reach. You’re tired of the same patterns affecting your relationships and well-being.
What you really want is peace – in your mind, body, and relationships. You want to feel safe, confident, and free from fear.
Healed & Happy is specifically designed for you. With personalized methods and Functional Destination Psychology, you’ll heal faster and more thoroughly while feeling good along the way.
It’s your time to change for good and finally feel at peace.
Why Choose Healed & Happy?
The only program that is fully specialized in the Fearful Avoidant attachment style
Based on 15 years of research and experience in healing the specific roots of the Fearful Avoidant attachment style
Finally feel calm in your mind, body, and relationships
HEAR FROM THE ONES WHO HAVE GONE BEFORE YOU
Healed&Happy is based on everything we know after working with 3000 fearful avoidants, to make sure:
You heal faster
You heal more thorougly
You feel good WHILE healing
You actually get to a place of BEING healed
You're not broken
Your Brain Just Needs a Different Approach
Most people try to think their way to healing. They try to be “rational” or “positive” — while their nervous system is in full-on panic mode.
But the Fearful Avoidant brain doesn’t respond to logic. It responds to safety. Which is why talk therapy, journaling or mindset work often fall short.
Not because you’re broken — but because those methods don’t speak the language of your fearbrain.
Healed & Happy is different. We don’t fight your fearbrain. We work with it.
Using Functional Destination Psychology, we guide your system out of survival mode — step by step — so healing finally lands.
Not just in your head, but in your body and your relationships.
If you’ve tried it all and still feel stuck…
This is your turning point.
Hey, I’m paulien,
Trauma-informed coach and former fearful avoidant
I know how exhausting it is to crave calm and love, but resist it at the same time. I decided i didn't want that for the rest of my life. And so i set out on a journey to heal.
It took me 10 years because nobody understood this, including me. But i figured out the core wounds, the most important fears, and negative associations. I found a method to heal them all.
That’s why I created Healed & Happy — a proven method that works with your fearbrain, not against it.
My approach helps you feel safe, calm, and confident in love — without spirals, shutdowns or self-blame.
This isn’t just theory. It’s what helped me heal.
And now, I’m here to guide you too.
I’m here to be your guide, mentor, and biggest supporter on your journey to being healed
healed & happy works:
On average, participants see a 75% improvement in feeling more calm and having more positive beliefs.
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30-Day Money-Back Guarantee
If for any reason you're not satisfied with the value you receive, simply reach out within 30 days of your purchase, and we'll refund your money in full. No hassle, no hard feelings. We're committed to your success, and we believe in the quality of our program – but we also understand that it may not be the right fit for everyone. This guarantee is our way of ensuring you can try it out risk-free!
Earnings Disclaimer: Every effort has been made to accurately represent the value of our programs and the potential for transformation in your mindset. However, we cannot guarantee any specific changes in your attachment style from applying the strategies and techniques shared. The figures we present are analysis from previous participants. These figures should not be interpreted as a promise, guarantee, or indication of your own future success. Your results will depend on several factors beyond our control, including your situation, skills and effort. Subject to our Refund Policy, all content is provided without any express or implied warranties. By continuing to access our content or make purchases, you acknowledge that we are not responsible for any outcomes you dor or do not achieve based on the information we provide.
Healed & Happy
Healed & Happy is a complete transformation program for people with a fearful avoidant attachment style. No vague advice or surface-level fixes — but a proven path that finally makes change stick.
You'll work with Functional Destination Psychology, the method developed for fearbrains like yours, so you can shift faster, deeper, and with more ease than anything you’ve tried before.
Finally understand what’s blocking you — and clear it at the root. No more getting stuck in overthinking or reacting without knowing why.
Results that last — without years of therapy. Skip the endless analyzing and feel more emotionally safe in weeks, not years.
Guided, structured and tailored to you. No generic content. You get personal guidance and clarity at every step.
Feel calm in love — without pushing people away. Experience connection without chaos or losing yourself in the process.
Built for the fearful avoidant brain. Unlike other programs, this method speaks your inner language — and works with it, not against it.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Q's
What is the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style?
The Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style is an insecure attachment pattern that often results in intense fear and tension (not just in relationships), fear of rejection, and difficulty maintaining healthy relationships.
How does this program help me?
The Healed & Happy program provides tailored guidance to help you heal from the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style. It focuses on understanding and working through your emotional triggers, developing healthier patterns, and building secure, loving relationships.
How long will it take to complete the program?
The program is self-paced and typically takes 8-12 weeks to complete, depending on your personal progress and dedication.
Is this program suitable for me?
Whether you are in a relationship or currently single, if you struggle with the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style and are ready to work on healing and creating lasting change, this program is designed for you.
Can I get personal support during the program?
Yes! You will receive personalized guidance and support throughout the program, ensuring you stay on track and get the most out of your healing journey.
What's inside Healed & Happy?
Step 1
You start by filling out a survey with a long list of questions. This helps us understand exactly where you are right now and what you need.
Step 2
Everyone starts with the core healing pathway, designed to heal the most important things first.
Step 3
After completion, you'll fill in another survey. Here's where it gets exciting - many see massive improvements already, after just the first pathway! (Even the ones that thought they would be the only ones the program didn't work for)
After completing the first pathway and filling in the survey, we assign you a new pathway based on your answers. And we keep going until you are healed!
I KNOW YOU WANT TO...
Ready to heal and Transform Your life?
Don’t miss this opportunity to gain the insights, tools, and confidence you need to heal your attachment style. Whether you’re just starting or trying for years, our program is designed to empower you every step of the way.