"More calm and loved than I could have imagined."
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How will Healed & Happy help you?

On average, participants see a 75% improvement, going from an 8 to a 2 when asked:
“How convinced are you that you’ll mess things up?”

You are not broken. Healing is possible.

  • Understand exactly why you react the way you do in love — and how to shift it
  • Feel safe in your own body and mind, even in moments of conflict or closeness
  • Stop pushing people away, even when you long for connection
  • Learn how to regulate your emotions in the moment, without spiraling
  • Start trusting your own decisions — in love, friendships and life
  • Experience love that feels calm, steady and secure — not chaotic

Just did Module 2 - Who you are. It almost brought tears to my eyes. This was the thing I was searching for the last 8 years Paulien, and maybe my whole life before that unconsciously due to attachment trauma.. My mind was so disorganized. I didn't know how to relate to myself and others. And after this I feel centered in myself. And I am very grateful for that. I approve this program so far cus you know, we (FA) can be quite motivated, so I have done some research. Thank you.

Andris (Latvia)

I did a lot of work prior to Paulien's course and when I found her video's, much of the inner patterns I had came conscious too.. it all came together understanding they all stemmed from this attachment style. Hearing her experiences and the things she thought or has said, we're almost the same or very similar to what I had already been trying to process and heal in my relationship and within myself. The course I was in prior was all about facing your shadow self and being very conscious about how we were actually showing up. I gained insight, but it was shared in a way that for me put healing in a negative way. I love that Paulien truly emanates her love throughout the entire course and I can really feel this from her. And her sharing we are ok just the way we are today even if we choose not to heal.

Alex ( USA)

🕰️ This page was written by Paulien Timmer, published on August 21, 2025.